Having options changes how you move, even when you only need one girl

The point of having options is not necessarily that you exercise them all. It is that you move differently when you know you could find someone else. When you are only texting one girl, you start overthinking every reply. You go into group chats asking what you should say, and almost every time the answer is the same: talk to more girls. Having a range of girls to talk to means you stop worrying, you learn more, and you start putting up riskier, higher-reward shots. Rather than spending weeks tiptoeing around a topic because you are scared she will ghost you, you just send it. If it does not land, who cares. If it does, great. The abundance mentality makes everything easier, and you move with a different kind of confidence.