Do not invite girls to your house before meeting them in public first
Inviting a girl straight to your house, especially before a first date, rarely works out and can actually hurt you. Fabrizio Rausa meets girls in a public place first out of basic personal caution. Once he has confirmed she is a real person and not a liability, then she can come over. There is an added benefit to this approach: it signals that you are not easy and that you have standards. You do not just invite anyone into your space. One time a girl drove two and a half hours late on a Wednesday night, and he still met her at the railway station and talked in the cold for half an hour before letting her in. That kind of behaviour puts respect on you and shows you are not going to date just anyone.
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