Why looksmaxing fails compared to social proof from real women
Fabrizio Rausa points out a core error in the looksmaxxing mindset. Men pursue height surgery, extreme grooming, and physical optimization because the underlying goal is to attract women. But the guy who walks into a room with three to five women around him immediately outperforms even the tallest, most conventionally attractive man who is cold approaching alone. Looks and height function as status signals, but actual social proof from real women is a stronger and more direct signal. The looksmaxxer optimizes the wrong variable.
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