Shorter dates help inexperienced guys hide their weaknesses
The advice to keep a first date short exists for a reason. It is easier to stay on your best behavior for 45 minutes than for three hours. If you are still learning, if this is one of your first dates or you know you are not great at it yet, shorter is genuinely going to help you. But if you are confident in yourself and you know the more a girl talks to you the more she likes you, there is no reason to artificially cut things off. The length should reflect how the interaction is actually going, not some rule you read online.
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