Schedule first dates mid-week, not Friday or Saturday
Hot girls are typically booked on weekends. They go out with friends or other people, so competing for their Friday or Saturday evening is harder. Fabrizio Rausa recommends scheduling first dates on Thursday or even Wednesday. Then, once you have already met, you can use the weekend to invite her out in a group setting, to your place, or let her invite you to hers. If a girl seems hesitant about a late evening time slot, take that into account. Coffee works particularly well here because it can happen in the afternoon, around 3 or 4 p.m., and if the date goes well and runs into the evening, that is a good sign.
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