Relationships cost more time than you think, even when you limit them
Even when Fabrizio Rausa was seeing just one woman once a week, he noticed how much time it consumed beyond the obvious hours. She comes over, you go through all of that, you sleep together, you do not sleep well, then you lay in bed in the morning. The indirect time cost adds up fast. He reached a point where even that felt like too much of a drain on his focus and energy. This is not presented as the right choice for everyone, but it reflects how seriously he was taking his trading goals during that period.
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