Make your photos invite women to envision themselves in the moment
The core goal of a lifestyle photo is to make the viewer feel included. Almost everybody has an iPhone now, so they can already picture themselves in that moment with you, sitting across that table, being in that scene. When you frame your photos with that dynamic in mind, women can naturally envision what it would look like to be there with you. That is the effect you are going for: not showing off, but pulling someone into a situation they want to be part of.
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