Four foundational rapport questions Fabrizio Rausa uses in every conversation
Fabrizio Rausa always covers four basic topics early in a conversation to build rapport before going deeper. First, her age. Second, where she is from, meaning both background and current location. Third, her occupation or what she currently does for work. Fourth, why she is single, which opens up past relationships. These do not need to come in a strict order, but he recommends asking the age and location questions before diving into the heavier topic of why she is single. Common sense on sequencing matters here.
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Free-flowing conversation beats rapid-fire questions every time
When texting a woman, the flow should feel natural, not like an interrogation. The structure is: say something, ask a question, she responds, you respond to what she said, then ask another question. It goes question, content, content, quest
MembersUse indirect invitations so she invites you rather than you inviting her
When a woman says something like 'Come to Ubud and you will know what cacao ceremonies are,' she is not saying it neutrally. Fabrizio Rausa explains that she remembered she had mentioned going to Ubud at the start of the conversation, and n
Never ask obvious follow-up questions: let curiosity stay implicit
When she mentioned Vipassana, the wrong move is to immediately ask "What is Vipassana?" like a fourth grader asking what someone does for fun. You can look it up yourself and gain knowledge about her interests without turning the conversati