Don't start posting content just for dating if you're not already passionate about it
Fabrizio Rausa made the mistake of posting content specifically aimed at attracting girls, but content designed purely for a female audience tends to make other guys see you as effeminate, basically one of the girls. That's the opposite of what works, because girls want guys that other girls want and that other guys want to be like. If you're not genuinely interested in building a personal brand, don't force it just for dating. It can actually hinder you. A few fun or personality-driven posts are fine, but sitting down to make intentional dating-bait content is not worth it if it's not already something you want to do.
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