Dating apps are rigged toward looks, which barely matters in real dating
According to Fabrizio Rausa, dating apps make sense primarily if you are conventionally attractive or tall, because the format highlights physical appearance above everything else. The problem is that looks are not actually that important when you are doing the real work of dating. So apps end up amplifying the least important variable and working against men who do not fit that narrow physical profile.
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