Being photogenic is a learnable skill, not a fixed trait
A common objection to online dating is that someone does not photograph well. Fabrizio Rausa dismisses this directly: taking good pictures is a skill that can be learned, just like any other skill in the dating process. If someone is unwilling to put in the work to improve how they present themselves in photos, then advice about online dating simply is not for them. The point is that leaning on a perceived weakness as an excuse to avoid online dating, while simultaneously suffering through the high emotional cost of cold approach, is not a rational trade-off.
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Online communities can connect you with high-level people across borders
Fabrizio Rausa lives in Switzerland and his guest lives in Romania, yet they connected and built a friendship purely through online communities. Without those communities, they would never have met, since neither had visited the other's cou
MembersWhy women who love you give you bad advice, especially about your social life and ambitions
The speaker argues that romantic partners, precisely because they care about keeping you close, will never advise you to become more famous, more controversial, wealthier in a way that makes you independent, or to build a wide circle of fre
Why Fabrizio Rausa rejects the 'pickup artist' label entirely
Fabrizio Rausa is direct about this: he is not a pickup artist. His approach is about using dating time efficiently. He is not spending three hours walking around approaching strangers. If he happens to see an attractive woman on the way to