Show a life in motion: Instagram should depict real moments, not performances
The underlying principle behind all of Fabrizio Rausa's Instagram advice is captured well by the idea that your profile needs to be an accurate depiction of your life. Girls, as he puts it, just want to have fun, and your Instagram should show that you are doing interesting, enjoyable things. Your version of fun will be different from someone else's, but the key is that something is actually happening. Standing against a wall with a styled outfit is a performance with no life behind it. Being somewhere, doing something, and capturing that moment is what makes a profile feel real and attractive.
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Displaying lifestyle freedom is an attractive trait worth showing subtly
When a woman says her friends all had to go home to work but she chose to stay, the right response is not just validation. It is a moment to display that you operate the same way. Saying something like 'I happen to life, life doesn't happen
MembersReading her profile to understand what kind of guy she is looking for
Fabrizio Rausa describes how he gathered information from a woman's Instagram profile before and during a conversation. She was in Bali long-term, self-employed, and into meditation. That combination points to a specific archetype of woman.
A strong Instagram profile makes women curious about you before you even ask
Fabrizio Rausa is direct about this: if your Instagram is just a picture with a fish and nothing else, none of the conversational techniques will work as well. When a woman checks your profile mid-conversation, which she will, she needs to